Let's face the truth head-on: the majority of men who post NSFW content simply show their hard, erect dicks. And more often than not, it's a close-up shot where you only see that.
I'm no one to judge, everyone does what they want. But personally, I don't enjoy doing that.
Oh, I'm not perfect either. I sometimes take close-ups of my own dick, but that's really not my thing.
What I love showing is my body in its entirety, exactly as I am: chubby, fully shaved, with a dick that's often been called cute despite not being particularly impressive in size. In short, I love being naked and showing my whole self.
And here's the thing: I actually find my dick much prettier when it's soft and flaccid than when it's hard and erect. In my opinion, the photo looks far more harmonious that way, instead of staring at a dick that's rock-hard and stretched.
Maybe it's because my body has fairly rounded curves and a flaccid dick blends much better with the overall look. Or maybe it's also because my dick isn't clearly a standout in size, so I feel better keeping a little mystery around it.
In any case, that's why you usually see my dick soft and not hard. Hopefully it still pleases you anyway!