DISCLAIMER 1: this is not a tutorial about what to do if you want to sell, I've never done that, this is written for people who want to post nudes online because they are aroused by this idea. Whether you plan to eventually sell or not is not relevant here.

DISCLAIMER 2: I don't pretend to know everything and tell you how to behave. What's written here is what I think everyone should know, you're free to ignore it or tell me where and why I'm wrong. Also this is written from a male perspective, it's a one-sided take and I know it, but I can only write about what I know.

So you want to start nuding online ? Or you've already done it and are afraid you made something wrong? I'd like to give you some advice to stay safe according to what you're willing to show or not, are you ready ? Follow me then !

Once it's posted it's gone, you don't own it anymore.

Sure you can ask people to refrain from reposting or saving your pics, but there is no guarantee they'll comply with your rules.

And no, posting using an app with a timeout feature on your pics is not safe. There is absolutely no way to prevent someone to screenshot your content. Don't listen to people saying otherwise, they are lying.

Etch this into your mind in letters of fire, and never forget it.

Maybe you don't care today if your face is clearly visible while you do whatever NSFW stuff, but what will you think about it in ten or twenty years ? Internet never forgets. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you shouldn't show your face, I'm only saying that you should be aware you'll never be able to delete it from internet.

Protect your privacy

I highly recommend you post your NSFW stuff on a new account if you already have one on the social media you've decided to use. Most of your casual friends and followers will most probably not be interested in watching you more or less nude, and it would ruin your privacy.

Also consider using a safe email dedicated to that account using Proton Mail or any other privacy oriented provider. If you're extra paranoid you can even use their VPN to hide where you're from even more. Google and Gmail are definitely not your friends here, actually they never are but that's another topic!

In the same paranoid vibe, don't store your unpublished pics online, or at least not on an account directly related to your real identity. Androids and iPhones have file vaults, use them for that !

If there is any part of your body you don't want to show the best advice I can give you is to avoid to take any picture with it and think you'll hide it later. One day you'll get sloppy and you'll forget to do it before posting, and then it'll be too late. Yes tatoos can be an issue depending on where and how unique they are, I don't have any so I can't tell if it's possible to delete them with an editing app 🤷🏻‍♂️

Think of the background of your pics too, how many of your friends know perfectly well how your living room looks like ? Your bedroom is probably a better place for that...

Anyway, try to find what suits you best between convenience and privacy. I'm not telling you that if you don't use every tools and rules I've listed here your world will fall apart, but at least you have some avenues to explore if you want to improve your privacy.

You decide what you show or do.

After trying many ways to show off, I finally chose to be almost always completely nude, my cock soft and as much of my body exposed as possible. This is what I like to do and no-one made these choices for me.

But you don't have to do as I do, or as anyone does.

Do what you feel like to and nothing more.

Don't change your mind because some people are saying they'd like to watch you doing something.

Never do anything under pressure, you'll be the one who endures the consequences, not them. Yes it's unfair because nobody should be allowed to coerce you into posting something you were not ready to post, but unfortunately that's the way it is.

Say you post something like the pic above and you don't want to go any further, because you're not ready, or because you simply don't want to. If you post your first full nude only because you've been asked to in the comments it won't be your choice anymore, and that's plain wrong.

Your body, and how it is represented, belong to you.

And sorry girls but once again you'll be the targets of these abuses in their vast majority. Nuding is arousing and fun, and there are many nice people doing it, but there are also many weird and unpleasant guys around this community.

Don't reply to someone with your genitals, don't assume someone wants to have sex with you.

This is not exactly about safety and privacy but I can't write this guide without a paragraph dedicated to boundaries.

Yes guys I'm mostly talking to you in this paragraph, and it applies to you whether you're posting nudes or not.

Unless it's clearly requested or if you're 100% sure the original poster loves that, DON'T REPLY WITH YOUR PICS, ESPECIALLY WITH YOUR COCK.

It's not arousing, it's gross.

Also people who share their body online are usually not fantasizing about being free use sex toys, actually many of us are not looking for a partner in the first place, so stop your fantasy pushing.

Once again don't get me wrong, if you plan to showcase yourself as a free use sex toy craving for fantasy pushing and hard cocks in your comments it's totally fine.But other people may have different expectations when they post their nudes, and being a fellow exhibitionist does not give you any derogatory status regarding the respect you owe them.

And if you don't know what to do read the goddam bio / profile of the person you're replying to. 99% of the time they've clearly stated there what they are expecting.

All the above make it somewhat more difficult for a guy to connect with other people in this community, at least in my opinion, so try to behave and don't spam your cock everywhere. Consent is a two way thing, it's not because you consent to expose yourself that anybody consents to watch you !

You don't owe anything to the people watching you.

If you don't feel like posting but you've become kinda famous for posting your whatever on whatever day, don't do it.

And if you don't feel like posting anymore, then stop. Put your account on hold, do something else, come back to it later, or never, but think of yourself first.

Furthermore is some people leave comments on your posts you don't owe them any answer, you also don't have to leave a like on their content because they liked yours, and you don't have to follow them back either.

Also be ready to get comments from people who think you're their sex toy, unless that's what you're looking for tell'em to stop immediately, or even block them without any prior warning.

They don't own you, you're the star of your show.

Last but not least, have fun !

Are you still ready to start posting ? Now you can make your own informed choices and then go ahead. And when you'll make your first successful post please remember what I wrote here and take a few seconds to think about what you'll do next.

You have no idea yet how good strangers' gazes on your body feels, I hope you'll discover it soon 😉