I don't think I'm breaking any new ground here, in fact I'm stating the absolute obvious, when I say that there is an immense pressure on how our bodies are supposed to look like, especially for women but more and more for men too.

At first you could think that nuding is the worst possible way to try to be unconventional regarding these shitty imperatives. After all, if you've ever been on pornhub or any places like that, there is a huge probability that you've been greeted by a dozen of videos full of slim people with huge tits or (and!) monster cocks. Also, you and I do know that a guy with a body like mine for example, will never be hired for any pro porn movie 🤷🏻‍♂️

But have you tried to look further than that ? Actually all types of body are represented. And if you go to places like Bluesky, where you're not force fed by an algorithm tailored to push down your throat what it believes you're looking for, you'll realise that the "porn goddess / god" you've been taught to enjoy is definitely not the norm.

Now let's be clear, I absolutely do not intend to kind of "reverse body shame" the people heavily featured in mass-produced porn. I'm happy for them if they are happy with their bodies, all I'm saying is that in fact they are not the majority of the people posting nudes online, porn or not, even if they are showcased a lot.

Back to what this writing is about, there is a so-called internet rule, which is a meme actually, it's Rule 34. It states that if it exists there is porn of it. And yes it's also true for you and I. How you look like does not matter, you will have people who like your body.

All you have to do is to be at peace with it. How you can achieve that is by posting nudes actually, slowly getting further in what you reveal as I explained here:

🔞Learning To Be Exposed🔞

🔞Learning To Be Exposed🔞

Exploring my motivations behind being exposed, where it all came from, and what it actually takes to finally feel confident enough to do it.

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🔞Learning To Be Exposed🔞

And I'm absolutely not saying that the only way to love your body is to post nudes. As I said at the very beginning, I'm talking to people who want to do it in the first place.

Anyway, and that's my conclusion, don't believe your body is not suited for posting nudes. It's absolutely fine if you're not interested in doing this, but if you're contemplating it there is no reason to fear you won't be attractive !