The first one is about feeling vulnerable when you're exposed
I really like the contradiction between the apparent vulnerability of being naked and the reality where you are in total control of the image you offer to others, once you've learned to stop worrying about how you look.
More about that prerequisite here:
🔞Learning To Be Exposed🔞
Exploring my motivations behind being exposed, where it all came from, and what it actually takes to finally feel confident enough to do it.
I also find in it revenge against life and affirming that you can please without respecting the so-called beauty standards. You can see it as my way of screaming at the world: I’m chubby, my cock is at best average and has nothing remarkable about it, I’m the antithesis of everything you’ll see in porn, and yet you’re here looking at me and (hopefully) I make you horny.
By the way, I'm not smooth to be noticed, admittedly I may be more noticed because I am and yes I shamelessly use it to showcase my body, but in no way it's for you. It's definitely because I love myself like that period. I simply hate body hairs on me since like forever, look no further than that.
Another thing I like is being used
No, sorry, I'm not talking about being a free use fuck toy 🤷🏻♂️.
Oftentimes people don't realize that I really mean it when I say that I love to be exposed. Someone once told me her pics were a public service for those who need to do well... whatever they want to do when they see someone nude, and I realised that it's exactly how I see mines too. I could literally post nudes on demand if people ask for it.
Actually I did it on Bluesky with my previous account, I had to take like 30/40 pics in an evening and it's one of my best memories in the NSFW community.Being unable to decide when I had to be nude for these people and to be essentially ordered to undress and post was very exciting, and actually I'm hard thinking about it.
By the way, if you're still there and actually reading, let's say that if you reply to this post and say "I read the second chapter" I'll post a a nude made for you 😏.
This makes me think that I'd really like to be exposed IRL in a sexualy charged environment. Not a public nude beach or I don't know what, but in a place where people go because they are horny and want to share it. I'm not looking into having sex with anyone, but I think I'd really like to be there, nude, watching, being watched, feeling all those gazes on me. And while I'm fantasizing about that, I think I'd like to be assigned to strip in front of them on some kind of stage while they are still clothed and waiting to get started...
(I hope this last paragraph doesn't sound too weird 🤣.)
And then of course there are the people you're chatting with
It comes last because it's actually the most difficult thing to do in my opinion when you're a man and you post your body online.
Because, sorry to say that, but a lot of guys don't know how to behave with people posting NSFW stuff and think we're here to fullfil their fantasies on demand. Sorry but it does not work this way.
So before trying to really chat with someone you have to prove you're a sound person, and not the gazillionth weirdo hitting his/her DM for sex.
And then you'll discover how easy it is to chat between people who've seen each other nudes in every possible way. I don't want to say too much about that because it's way too private, but seriously it's definitely worth it !
I hope I've convinced you there are many enjoyable aspects in posting nudes once you've exhausted the thrill of novelty. If you're already doing this, what do you like most about it ? Is it similar to me or completely different?
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed this writing and thanks for reading this far !